the game of seduction is so much easier than the game of love.
but wht's love anyway?
i think i need to start thinking about being in a more stable r/s, rather than well, love games that are (self) destructive and never lasts.

they all follow the same pattern: hi-bye to add on facebook to actually becoming real friend to msn convos to texts to calls to going out for a movie or dinner and to maybe becoming something more than just friends.
but most of the times i cant see those signs because i'm concentrating on being a friend, instead of potential lover.
and some where along the line i'll start hurting people.
so now once its at msn convos or text stage, i start keeping my distance.
this way, at least there wont be any losers.
and we get to keep the status as friends.
one of my new year resolution is to not break any heart, or at least minimise the chances. i'm still keeping scores.
so far, so good.